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Why I love being the 3rd wheel: mkp perspective | Exeter, NH Photographer

Last week, there was a great Off­beat Bride article by tribe mem­ber Linz­mat sha­ring some help­ful hints for the “less-​than-​photogenic” cou­ple. She adres­ses the apprehen­sion that can come along with the pre­con­cie­ved notion of ‘having your pic­ture taken’. We all feel unpho­to­grapha­ble at times, and let me tell you — as a self proc­lai­med ‘oh.crap.its.a.camera.(andimnotholdingit)’ duc­ker, I whole-​heartedly recog­nize the stress and fear that can take over at just the thought of a photo session.

Take for ins­tance, our enga­ge­ment pho­tos — Octo­ber 2007 and I was just get­ting star­ted with pho­to­graphy. Our friend Mag­gie, who had some photo/​posing expe­rience come along and use my camera to help us out. I was full on anxiety going into it. Nichole is abso­lu­tely pho­to­ge­nic and I’m, well.. me. I even for­got to take my cell phone out of my poc­ket — way to help my cause!

I cer­tainly wish I knew then what I know now (as is always the case!) And although I love Mag­gie for hel­ping out and doing a great job — I really should have taken my own advice and hired a pro­fes­sio­nal who would have known to make it less about the posing and more about us being us.

We had a lot of laughs, and that was really help­ful. There are some nice shots, and some of them do cap­ture us ‘for real’ (par­ti­cu­larly the one on the left — that eyes up face is a stan­dard of mine) But if I’d read Linzmat’s article before hand, I may have done a few things differently!

These are great tips for anyone having their pho­tos taken — not just “less than pho­to­ge­nic” peo­ple. It’s truly all about being trus­ting and having fun and Linz­mat has so suc­cinctly com­plied some really good advice, I wan­ted to share!

    • Find a pho­to­grapher you love and trust, and be honest and open with them. Our pho­to­grapher had a very hands-​off style except for every once in a while. She put us in a beau­ti­ful loca­tion, gave us a cou­ple of poin­ters, and then prac­ti­cally disap­pea­red while she was taking pic­tu­res and we just did our thing.
    • Don’t think of the ses­sion as a photo shoot. Think of it as a date that hap­pens to have a pho­to­grapher. Before we met up with our pho­to­grapher, we went out to break­fast. We met her at a cof­fee shop and just basi­cally went for a walk around a beau­ti­ful location.
    • If you have some shots that are really impor­tant to you, let your pho­to­grapher know! I emai­led our girl some great pic­tu­res my future hus­band and I that I loved the style and feel of, and a cou­ple of them that we defi­ni­tely wan­ted of us. A good pho­to­grapher will appre­ciate a little gui­dance from you. After all, she works for you, not the other way around.
    • Bring props that are impor­tant to you. We brought books, our pool cues, and a photo frame of our wed­ding date.
    • Go to your ele­ment. We went to a pool hall and a college cam­pus. Those are both pla­ces we love and pla­ces we feel at home. If your ele­ment is inside your own home, shoots at home are great too!
    • Wear something that makes you feel awe­some. I chan­ged my out­fit three times the mor­ning of because when I loo­ked at myself in the mirror, I didn’t see me. I saw me in a top I wouldn’t nor­mally wear, or in jewelry I’d never worn. I chan­ged into a favo­rite top that I feel like a million bucks in, and brought my favo­rite little black (okay, blue) dress. And I was so happy I did. My future hus­band is most com­for­ta­ble in a swea­ter and jeans, so he wore his favo­rite of both and brought a button-​down and slacks (his work uni­form and another favo­rite look).

I love all the tips and encou­rage ever­yone to take them under advi­se­ment. It is without a doubt, first and fore­most, impe­ra­tive that you trust and hope­fully, adore your pho­to­grapher. But the best advice? Don’t think of it as a photo ses­sion. Think of it as a date. It’s about enjo­ying each other’s com­pany in a place (or pla­ces) you think are fun, or inte­res­ting, or beau­ti­ful, or mea­ning­ful. Laugh­ter and con­ver­sa­tion are essen­tial. Be flirty, con­nect with each other, take the time to remem­ber everything you love about one another. Have fun and don’t worry about me! I’m more than happy to be the third wheel!

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bobbi+mike workshop 04.2011 | Indianapolis, Indiana

What do you do when you’re given the oppor­tu­nity to meet, and learn from, your pho­to­graphy idols? WHATEVER IT TAKES. So when I lear­ned that bobbi+mike, a hus­band and wife team of fabu­lous­ness from India­na­po­lis, whom I have blogs­tal­ked since almost the begin­ning of my MKP adven­tu­res (I have a mes­sage to her in Sept 08 telling her how much I admi­red her work, but that I swear I wasn’t a stal­ker) were hos­ting their first ever workshops, that’s what I did.

It’s no sec­ret that I fell into pho­to­graphy acci­den­tally. Until early 2006 I really had no idea I loved it — or that other peo­ple (aside from my ever loving mother (hi mom!)) had any appre­cia­tion for the pho­tos I took. But in Decem­ber 2006, I made a web­site, sold some prints & note cards, took some family pho­tos, and was asked to shoot a wed­ding. 07.07.07 I shot my first wed­ding — and I haven’t stop­ped going since. I love EVERY SECOND of it (well maybe not tax sea­son..) but for real — this is an ama­zingly hum­bling thing I’ve found within me and I wouldn’t change a thing.

Howe­ver, some­ti­mes in the back of my head, even with 250+ shoots under my belt, I think — “but I never took a class, what if I’m doing it all wrong?”

There are pho­to­graphy workshops every time your turn around — near & far — short & long — and some hos­ted by peo­ple that I would totally con­si­der it an honor to learn from — but when Bobbi hin­ted at a workshop I thought, gosh — THAT would be the one. And when she relea­sed the options for dates of the workshops I thought — gosh, THAT would be the one. And then I deci­ded that HAD to be the one. I nee­ded to do this for myself as a pho­to­grapher, and more impor­tantly for myself as a per­son. Outside the fact that I have a total photo.girl.crush on Bobbi (and totally a crush on Mike too!) I nee­ded to pur­sue this adven­ture and to hear wha­te­ver it was that they had to say. … Loo­king back, when I sig­ned up, I really had no idea what they were “selling” sylla­bus wise — I just knew that I couldn’t miss it.

In early February they announ­ced the dates, and then announ­ced when they’d open sig­nups. 10 peo­ple per workshop, 3 workshops — but I wan­ted the first one. (you never for­get your first!) Sign ups ope­ned at 3pm.. the time I leave work. At 2:45 I ope­ned the page and fran­ti­cally follo­wed her twit­ter feed wai­ting for go time in bet­ween refreshing the sig­nup page to see if the cart was open yet. tick.refresh.tick.refresh.tick.refresh.tick. GO! I was all full of adre­na­line and crazy as I added the 2 day pho­to­graphy workshop and 1/​2 day album desig­ning workshop to my cart, sub­mit­ted my order, and squea­led with delight as I was IN! Then I got in the car to drive home and thought — now what the heck am I going to do?! I’m going all alone to a place I’ve never been to meet stran­gers to talk about something I don’t even know that I’m doing right. crap.dammit. But I pulled up my big girl pan­ties and made the appro­priate tra­vel plans. Leave Sun­day, come back Wed­nes­day night — taxis & a giant hotel rooms to myself. It would be the lon­gest I’d ever been away from home on my own. If I wasn’t before, I was cer­tainly a grown up now. (within rea­son of course ;) )

Less than 2 months later it was time to go. Nichole & Ben­ja­min drove me to the air­port and with only minor, but hugely frus­tra­ting delays on my layo­ver, and a not so scary taxi ride, I was in down­town India­na­po­lis and freshe­ning up to go for a drink with the beau­ti­ful Ash­ley Cohn from MN — another workshop atten­dee, we’d all been emai­ling once the workshop ros­ter was relea­sed and Ash­ley and I mana­ged to coör­di­nate eve­ning sche­du­les. It was nice to know hea­ding into it Mon­day mor­ning that there would be at least one ‘fami­liar’ face.

The workshop was phe­no­me­nal we tal­ked and lear­ned and loved and laughed and cried and taught and sha­red and colla­bo­ra­ted. I didn’t do much with my camera, I pro­bably could have just as easily left it at home, but I did bring it along on the real-​people-​not-​models-​who-​were-​actually-​engaged enga­ge­ment ses­sion we got to wit­ness and I couldn’t help but take a few photos.

Here’s the whole group (minus one Miche­lle) l:r Miche­lle, Ash­ley, Faye, Jenna, Sarah, Les­lie, Heather, Mike, Crys­tal Jo & front and cen­ter, Bobbi taking pho­tos of BJ & Rachel — enga­ged cou­ple extraor­di­naire. Let me tell you — watching bobbi+mike shoot was so awe­some. Not only are they fan­tas­ti­cally hys­te­ri­cal, they had even more crazy tricks up their slee­ves than I did — which means I was totally on the right track and now armed with even more fun and hila­rity! new & impro­ved! ;)

Down­town Indy is really fas­ci­na­ting — so indus­trial and full of very-different-than-I’m-used-to shoo­ting oppor­tu­ni­ties. I’ve lear­ned to look har­der around here in the sea­coast, but it really is stran­gely idy­llic… (I do love that, but some­ti­mes old and bro­ken and dif­fe­rent is a lot of fun too!)

The weather had been over­cast all day, but by the end of our shoot, the ‘magic light’ tried to make an appea­rance — we were all on the top of the par­king garage and I deci­ded to pull out my ‘far away’ lens and see what I could do from my strictly obser­ver stand­point wor­king around 11 other peo­ple all watching or shoo­ting the same sub­jects. It was awe­so­me­sauce x2.

Bobbi explai­ning some of the thoughts behind her shoo­ting — so much genius pac­ked in to such a petite body!

I sort of love these 4 — a lot.

I can honestly say that this was the best thing I’ve ever done for myself — bobbi+mike and the rest of the group were fan­tas­tic and the know­ledge was inva­lua­ble. I left Wed­nes­day after­noon with new friends, new ideas, and secure and com­for­ta­ble kno­wing I am hea­ded in the right direc­tion and that I want to do this for years and years to come.

much love friends!

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Christmas 2010

Another year was win­ding to a close and Christ­mas Eve was upon us again. This year we were lucky enough to have Alli­son & Loch­lin at our cele­bra­tion! (Seriously kid, you’re less than a month old and already on the blog 3 times?! ;) )

It was my mom’s first time mee­ting him so she swoo­ped him up when he got there, but she quickly lear­ned she had to share.

With her grandchildren!

Killian who was just over 3 12 got to hold him all by him­self, and he even sha­red his che­rished monka with him. And that there on the right, that’s a mee­ting of the minds. Sweet, loving, minds.

Avery, 19 months, also got to hold him. And love him, and tell you that he’s HER baby, and smooch on him. (And cry when we took him away, but I didn’t take a pic­ture of that because it was my turn to hold him so I was the one doing the taking!)

We dis­trac­ted the kids with pre­sents — always a good plan. Books for everyone!

Ben­ja­min read his youn­ger cou­sins their new books and then my dad did the annual rea­ding of The Night Before Christmas

Christ­mas after­noon we hea­ded back to my mums in the after­noon for more Christ­mas goodness.

Harry Pot­ter — books & bluray!

Avery had had enough of Christ­mas and wasn’t too sure she wan­ted to be awake from her after­noon nap. But she reluc­tantly sho­wed me the elephant feet, and then mum got some slip­pers meant for elephant feet!?

Then Santa did something all crazy santa like.. Killian had had a small green Amy Coe blan­ket since before he was born. It was called facey and then one day, sadly, facey disap­pea­red. We all loo­ked high and low for facey but he was no where to be found. Nor were there any more to be found in Tar­get, or anywhere. Well, Santa has some really good inter­net fin­ding skills and deci­ded that this just couldn’t be. And a small, plain box wrap­ped in blue tis­sue with just the name Killian on it was found under the tree.

With good old three year old fero­city he rip­ped into that pac­kage as his mum sat behind him saying ‘what is it?’ … then out of the box comes the blan­ket and out of the Killian comes “FACEY” .. and out of my eyes come tears and love.

And facey got a pro­per love also and then a group hug from Killi’s mum & dad too.

And then, Ben­ja­min did this. And I couldn’t find a photo to part­ner with it because it tells it’s story ALL on it’s own. Oh yes, he’s mine, all mine.

One final Christ­mas — ours! And it was great.

The last gift was an Archos Inter­net Tablet — and then we never heard from him again ;)

Merry Christms! (you know, 5 months ago)

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Spring Sale!

Mother nature tried to play an April Fools’ joke with a few inches of April snow and a SNOW DAY! But the joke’s on her — you now have 3 extra days to take advan­tage of the MKP Spring Fling Sale!

Savings of $40-$125 off regu­lar pac­kage pri­ces. Pri­ces lis­ted reflect sale.

Save now, shoot later! You know, when the snow melts; again.

Spread the word! If you and a new MKP client both book a ses­sion you’ll each get 2 free 8x10’s with any package!

As always, all pac­ka­ges inc­lude water­mar­ked ima­ges for web sha­ring and an online gallery for you to view, share & purchase your photos!

facebook.com/melissakorenphotography

~Think Spring~

~melis­sa­ko­ren~

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Vermont Vacation 06.2010

First he tur­ned 10, then school was out and we hop­ped in the car and hea­ded to one of our favo­rite pla­ces, Ver­mont! It was the first time we’d been able to bring him there with us and I was so exci­ted to adven­ture with him!

First stop, of course!

Then mean­de­ring through some water­falls & sce­nery. Yay for family vacation!

When he was 5 we drove cross-​country to NM, he’s always been a great road trip­per. This past Christ­mas he got a digi­tal camera and would make us pull over on the side of the road so he could take pho­tos of the sce­nery. Made his pho­to­grapher mommy proud! (he didn’t take the photo on the left, I just like it and had no other place for it. :) )

I’ve always wan­ted to take a photo like this. Yay me!

I love lake Champlain.

Family Por­trait!

Echo!

Don’t be sad teddy bear!

I think his favo­rite part was spot­ting the cows around down­town Bur­ling­ton. So cute!

5 years ago I snap­ped this stealthy photo of Nichole at Dobra;

And it gave me stu­pid amounts of hap­pi­ness to do it again 5 years later. I really like the addi­tion of the wed­ding band :)

On the way home we tried to stop at Texas falls only to be sad and dis­ma­yed at the damage that was done during some of our storms had clo­sed it tem­po­ra­rily. We still got to poke around the top a little.

I <3 Vermont!

I can’t believe it’s been 6 months since our little family adventure.

Happy Christ­mas to you and yours! <3

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Benjamin’s 10th Birthday

Tur­ning 30 didn’t bother me, didn’t think twice about it. But being mom to a 10 year old — that cer­tainly threw me for a loop (still does, every day). We went to the Roc­kin’ Rib Fest again for the 2nd year and B had his game face on.

Much fun and copious amounts of food were had!

Part two of the birth­day was a first for all of us -

Admit­tedly I have ZERO inte­rest in sports. But the buzz in the air and the grand­ness of it all was very exciting!

I only had the point and shoot so we could stay as com­pact as pos­si­ble, I was sho­wing B how much the camera could zoom but I kinda really like the resul­ting shot. My 10 year old!

The sun­set was beautiful!

Yoooooouk!

What a gerat way to cele­brate being 10!

I love you B!

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Boston Stay-​Cation 02.2010

February Vaca­tion.

Bought house: check

Moved in: check

Made it through holi­days: check

Still win­ter: check

So what to do?! We deci­ded to take a mini-​vacation to Bos­ton. And it was the best deci­sion ever. Des­pite the rain/​sleet/​deluge that was about we mana­ged to time the weather well and expe­rience so many things new, and old, with Ben­ja­min. We ate at Fire & Ice and Waga­mama. We went to the MOS, the MFA, the Top of the Hub, & the Aqua­rium. We sta­yed at the Hil­ton Back Bay for 2 nights with a gelato bar in the lobby and had colds­tone. It was just fabu­lous family time.

I put my point and shoot to the task trying to demand high per­for­mance while still fit­ting in my poc­ket with my phone & keys. It tried it’s best to keep up with me.

First stop was the MOS (Museum of Science) - it’s crazy how much it hasn’t chan­ged since I was a kid — the basics of science are still just that! Basic! Howe­ver, the ‘exhi­bits’ of what a cas­sette tape is were a little off putting.

The next day we went to the aqua­rium. My mom came down for the day to hang out with us. She is recently visually impaired. Depth and sha­dows and monoch­rome are dif­fi­cult for her to dis­cern and the glass of the tanks was an inte­res­ting expe­rience for her. The octo­pus was hiding in the back of his ‘cage’ and mum couldn’t see him. She put her hand on the glass and wished he would come clo­ser. And he did — he tra­ver­sed right over, loo­ked her in the eye, and then went back to the cor­ner. It was pretty ama­zing. And also, I love jelly fish exhibits.

The Aqua­rium, like the MOS hasn’t chan­ged much since I was a kid and it’s been a bit since we took Ben­ja­min down. The photo on the left is from.. maybe 20042005 and although I tried to get the seals to coö­pe­rate they refu­sed. The water level is nearly the same though. *sniff*

Most of our days loo­ked like this — it gave a really neat fee­ling to the city.

Every once in a while we’d get a break in the clouds though and I loved the sha­dows in this old stone church.

One of the most sur­pri­singly inte­res­ting things we did was go to the Top of the Hub at the Pru­den­tial Cen­ter. I’d never been up there before and when we got to the top the skies clea­red up long enough for us to take the tour; which was actually really infor­ma­tive and not so boring! (I was skeptical)

Our last trip was to the Museum of Fine Arts. It was much less hit or miss than I thought it would be with the 10 year old boy. He LOVED the Egyp­tian exhi­bits and the musi­cal ins­tru­ments. He mana­ged to find a decent atten­tion span for the ‘clas­sics’ too. My most favo­rite part was this all sided mirro­red bottle collec­tion. My photo makes it look kind of like a pain­ting but it was fully three dimen­sio­nal and just STUNNING. It was pro­bably the only time I really regret­ted not having my pro-​camera gear with me. But I made the best of it!

We had a great time. He’s defi­ni­tely at the right age for the mix of child like won­der­ment and the abi­lity to keep him­self enter­tai­ned when it’s not all go. go. go.

:) ~MelissaKoren

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